If you want to know the REAL story without getting lost in words, check out these indicators:
1. Patterns – Patterns reveal things. They reveal values, priorities and preferences. Often times an individual playing out patterns may not be aware of them or the messages they send. It is up to you to notice and decide the proper course of action.
2. Behaviors - There are no clever words that can trump actual behavior. Behaviors (like patterns) reveal the truth. What one chooses to do (or not do) tells the real story. If you want to know how someone feels about “this, that or the other thing”, just watch their behavior. Behavior simply says “this is what matters to me”, regardless of what is said.
3. Projection – Now this is a real funny one. I am sure we have all been guilty of this one because our lovely egos play a role. This is when an individual is wrong and they attempt to craft it so that you somehow made them make that wrong choice. Projection is when a person attacks the mirror, YOU happen to be holding up.
This simple wisdom, with time and practice, gives you the power to see the truth of almost any situation. It can help you make good choices and not be swayed by illusions. In short, its people reading made simple.